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Sunday, September 8, 2013

Marriage in Islam

How to deal with women, if you're man enough
When she hits you or pushing you- Hold her hands.
When she get angry- Just hug her.
When she be silent- Ask her what is the problem.
When she ignore you- Give her attention.
When she asked you about something- Don't neglected her.
When she want to get away from you- Don't agree with her opinion.
When you see her in a worst situation- Tell her, "You're beautiful."
When you see her cry- Kiss her head and tell her, "I love you a lot."
When you feel her scared- Protect her.
When you see her jealous- That's mean she loved you more than you imagine.
When she says to you, "I love you"- That's mean she have feeling to you more than you think.
When she looks into your eyes- Don't turned your eyes until she turned first.
"They are a garments for you, and you are a garments to them..."
Surah al-Baqarah [2:187]
By getting married, you're not just getting a wife, you're getting your whole world. From now until the rest of the days, your wife will be your partner, your companion and your bestfriend.
She will share your moments, your days, and your years. She will share your joys and sorrows, your succesess and failures, your dream and your fears.When you are ill, she will take the best care of you. When you need help, she will do all she can for you.
When you have a secret, she will keep it. When you need advice, she will give you the best advice. She will always be with you, when you wake up in the morning, the first thing your eyes will see will be hers. During the day, she'll be with you. If for a moment, she is not with you by her physical body, she'll be thinking of you, praying for you with all her heart, mind and soul. When you go to sleep at night, the last thing your eyes will see will be her. And when you're asleep, you will still see her in your dreams. In short, she will be your whole world and you will be her whole world. 
It requires that a husband and wife should be a garments for each other. Just as garments are for protection, comfort, show and concealment for human beings, Allah expects husbands and wives to be one for another. 
"And one of His signs is that He created mates for you from yourselves that you may find tranquility in them, and He put you between love and compassion; most surely there are signs in this for a people who reflect."
Surah al-Rum [30:21]
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