The first chapter

Assalamualaikum

Hello 2014 and welcome adulthood! Alhamdulillah kita masih lagi diberikan kesempatan untuk meneruskan kehidupan di bumi Allah ni. Rasa macam kejap je. Pejam celik pejam celik dah 2014. Sedar-sedar dah 20 tahun anak dara Encik Naim dan Puan Kamsiah ni. Dah besar dah dia. Dah boleh kahwin dah ni. Ehh? Haha.

Actually, tidak menjadi kesalahan pun jika seseorang itu nak kahwin muda. Malah sangat digalakkan. Cuma orang kita ni lah. Typical Malaysian kann.. Suka sangat judge orang itu ini. Well, orang kita sangat pakar dalam menilai sesuatu. Asal nak kahwin muda je kata gatal lah itu lah ini lah. Asal hantaran murah je kata tak laku. Bila hantaran tinggi jual anak katanya. See!! Nampak tak sikap orang-orang kita yang suka "judge a book by its cover"?

Bagi aku, lantak pi lah kau nak kahwin awal ke lambat ke, asal kau rasa dia jodoh terbaik untuk kau, kewangan yang kukuh dan yakin dia boleh membimbing kau (for girls), teruskan menikah. Eceh ayat aku macam orang dah berpengalaman. 

But, wait. Asal tetiba cerita pasal kahwin ni? Baru nak masuk 20 Imma. Hahaha

Nak cerita benda lain sebenarnya tapi dah terpesong jauh pulak.

I've learned a lot in 2013. I've learned which one is true or fake in many things. This year i loved. This year i've lost. This year i've change. This year was hard. Hard, but i learned a lot. I've learned that people be fake. I've learned that people can hurt you a lot or can hurt you just in a blink of eyes. I learned that good people can change in a minute when their hearts get broken. I've met great people, but mean people as well. But, the most important thing I've learned is that every person is strong enough to let go. To let go of that painful past of yours that broke your heart into million pieces. People come and go, that's life. The most important thing is to stand up and realize that you deserve something better than a person than a person who gives up on you.

People changed. Love hurts. Things go wrong but the true friends stayed. But, just remember that life goes on.

For this 2014 and the new phase of my age, i'll learn to be independent. I'll learn to be more mature. I'll learn to not too easily trust and hoping in order to avoid from getting hurt again. 

Ya Allah, may YOU ease everything that I'll do throughout this year. Amiin..

This is the new me, This is me, Imma Naim :)